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Ever had the urge to blurt out that you are a cross-dresser? I have! In fact, I have succumbed to this urge a few times and I can say though many were positive with their reaction once it went very badly and I had inadvertently given someone knowledge they proceeded to use against me. It was not the most comfortable of outcomes. So coming out as a cross-dresser, why tell anyone? I do feel some people need to know, in my case my wife and family. I did not want it to remain a secret in our lives. However, I have come out to others who are not family but I have many tears of trust with them. My mistake was at times I was bursting with an urge to just tell people and quite frankly it was truly reckless frame of mind to be in. So I made a big mistake with one person and could only stop them using my secret cross-dressing activities being used to cause me trouble in my working life buy having to come out to more people than I really wanted to. It did at least wipe out the hold the person who despised me for being a cross-dresser thought they could have over me. It was an unpleasant time and it upset my family. So during my last cross-dressing in March I thought I would record a short video on coming out and my own take it on which is be cautious! Of course, this is just my own view and each of us will feel differently about coming out. I know some people are very open and uninhibited. My own situation is I need to stay protective of my family and my job as I need to provide a stable income to support those I love dearly. My moments of reckless desire to tell the world I love dressing up as a woman need to be contained. I am now very careful who I come out to. Others have come out to me about their own lives and sexuality so I know we have mutual respect and trust with each other. I would definitely urge caution. Coming out has it’s immediate moment of euphoria and liberation that you have told someone but the long term consequence is they now know something about you that could potentially cause you big problems in your life if they don’t respect the secret you just shared or they decide to use that new knowledge against you. Resist the urge to tell! Think carefully about who you decide to share this part of your life with.
▶ Femme name: Kayla Natsuky ▶ Location: Italy ▶ How long you have been crossdressing : I have been crossdressing for 5 years, even though I had my first experiences already at 16 years with my mother’s clothes. ▶ Say something about your crossdressing experience: Dressing up is the thing that gives me the most pleasure, it makes me feel good and the first times I saw myself as a female I got a crazy joy. ▶ Reason you crossdress: I really like femininity and wearing women clothes, make up and becoming feminine gives me a sense of charm and […]
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▶ Name: Scarlett ▶ Location: Banbury, UK ▶ How long you have been crossdressing: On and off since my early teens. My first professional makeover was 6 years ago, and after that I was hooked. ▶ Say something about your crossdressing experience: Dressing started as a kink and being curious about wearing feminine clothes, but overtime I have enjoyed exploring and developing my femme persona. I love the whole transformation process. ▶ Reason you crossdress: It’s fun. I love to feel pretty and feminine, and see a woman staring back at me in the mirror. Women’s clothes are far more […]
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We asked 20 crossdressers from around the world about their favorite outfits and Fashion style. Read what they said regarding their styling and outfit preferences. 1. Vanessa (France) ” I like to be in a dress and I would define my style as casual chic.” 2. Amy (California, USA) ” I’m always thinking about and looking for new outfits/styles to try; whether that’s a cute pink baby girl look or a darker latex and bondage one. I find it fun to play around and lean into different feminine personas. “ 3. Raquel Pardo (Barcelona, Spain) ” I like to keep […]
▶ Femme name: Jenna ▶ Location: United Kingdom ▶ How long you have been crossdressing : I’ve been cross-dressing for 2-3 years. ▶ Reason you crossdress: Cross-dressing is just for fun and enjoy my femme side. ▶ Things you like doing after getting dressed: Taking pictures in different posts. ▶ Your favorite outfits/style: Some of my favorite outfits are wedding dress, office outfits in stocking and high heel. ▶ Instagram:@jenna_jyg Photo Gallery: Facebook Comments
