When I help clients learn to conduct listening sessions, commonly people want an example of what it means to go deep. I will do a demo and several exercises. Sometimes this doesn't quite illustrate…
"Beautifully written and wise … [Martin Prechtel] offers stories that are precious and life-sustaining. Read carefully, and listen deeply."—Mary Oliver, National Book Award and Pulitzer Prize winner Inspiring hope, solace, and courage in living through our losses, author Martín Prechtel, trained in the Tzutujil Maya shamanic tradition, shares profound insights on the relationship between grief and praise in our culture—how the inability that many of us have to grieve and weep properly for the dead is deeply linked with the inability to give praise for living. In modern society, grief is something that we usually experience in private, alone, and without the support of a community. Yet, as Prechtel says, "Grief expressed out loud for someone we have lost, or a country or home we have lost, is in itself the greatest praise we could ever give them. Grief is praise, because it is the natural way love honors what it misses." Prechtel explains that the unexpressed grief prevalent in our society today is the reason for many of the social, cultural, and individual maladies that we are currently experiencing. According to Prechtel, "When you have two centuries of people who have not properly grieved the things that they have lost, the grief shows up as ghosts that inhabit their grandchildren." These "ghosts," he says, can also manifest as disease in the form of tumors, which the Maya refer to as "solidified tears," or in the form of behavioral issues and depression. He goes on to show how this collective, unexpressed energy is the long-held grief of our ancestors manifesting itself, and the work that can be done to liberate this energy so we can heal from the trauma of loss, war, and suffering. At base, this "little book," as the author calls it, can be seen as a companion of encouragement, a little extra light for those deep and noble parts in all of us. Product DetailsISBN-13: 9781583949399 Media Type: Paperback Publisher: North Atlantic Books Publication Date: 04-14-2015 Pages: 184 Product Dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.30(h) x 0.70(d)About the Author A leading thinker, writer and teacher in the search for the indigenous soul in all people, Martín Prechtel is a dedicated student of eloquence, history, language and an ongoing fresh approach. In his native New Mexico Martín teaches at his international school Bolad’s Kitchen: a hands-on historical and spiritual immersion into language, music, ritual, farming, cooking, smithing, natural colors, architecture, animal raising, clothing, tools, story, grief, and humor to help people from many lands, cultures, and backgrounds to remember and retain the majesty of their diverse origins while cultivating the flowering of integral culture in the present to grow a time of hope beyond our own.Table of Contents Table of Contents Introduction: A Little Extra Light for the Bottom of the River ix 1 Grief Is a Shameless Dreamer 1 2 Normal Grief: Our First Song Is Grief 7 3 Swimming in the Grief of Longing for Aeyla 21 4 Grief Is Praise 29 5 The Tribe of the Sea and the Designated Non-Grievers 45 6 Paddles of Tears, Canoes Made Out of Old Songs 61 7 Revenge 77 8 Too Big, Too Sour, Too Hard, Too Old: The Black Hole of Ungrieved War 89 9 Money Eats the World 103 10 Animals: Grief Orphans Are the Doctors 117 11 Loss of Limb: Never Interrupt a Blessing 133 12 One Small Road 151 13 The Smell of Rain on Dust 161 Acknowledgments 169 About the Author 171 Show More
In today's episode, we are talking all about the benefits of reading. We discuss why people don't read now and what makes reading physical books independently so different than reading on a screen. We talk about what it means to be aliterate and why we should be a people of the book as Christians. Join us for a great conversation on why reading is so important, and get motivated to start your reading habit!
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Hey there! Welcome to my little corner of Etsy, where the art of listening takes center stage. I’m thrilled to introduce you to my professional listening service, a unique and deeply personal experience that can make a world of difference in your life. In a world that often feels loud and disconnected, I’m here to provide a safe space, an empathetic ear, and a friendly shoulder for you to lean on. As a fellow human, I've been through my fair share of ups and downs. I understand the value of a kind word, a listening ear, and the profound impact it can have on your overall well-being. That's why I’m passionate about offering my listening services right here on Etsy, a platform that celebrates craftsmanship and the power of human connection. Whether you need a sounding board, a confidante, or just someone to chat with, our attentive and compassionate listener Angelique is here to help you navigate life's twists and turns. The Art of Listening At the core of this professional listening service is the belief in the transformative power of listening. It's not just about hearing words; it's about understanding, empathizing, and being fully present in the moment. I've found that a genuine, active listener can help you process your thoughts and emotions, gain clarity, and feel validated in ways you might not have experienced before. A Helping Hand in Tough Times Life can be tough, and we all encounter moments when we feel lost, overwhelmed, or alone. At times like these, the simple act of sharing your thoughts with someone who genuinely cares can be incredibly uplifting. I have been through my fair share of life's challenges, and I’m here to offer support, compassion, and a friendly presence when you need it the most. The Healing Power of Conversation One of my favorite stories is about a customer named Alex, who reached out to us during a particularly difficult time in his life. Through our conversations, he found the strength to navigate his way out of his emotional turmoil and onto a path of healing. It's moments like these that remind us of the incredible healing power of genuine, heartfelt conversations. A Safe and Judgment-Free Space I've created a safe and judgment-free space for you to express yourself openly and honestly. Whether you want to discuss personal challenges, share your dreams and aspirations, or just engage in lighthearted chatter, I’m here to lend a non-judgmental ear. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard, understood, and accepted for who they are. Why Choose My Listening Service? Greetings! I'm a compassionate Christian woman who is here to lend a caring ear and offer support. My approach involves the power of prayer, artificial intelligence, and online resources to assist my clients in the best way possible. It's important to clarify that I do not engage in witchcraft or divination. I'm dedicated to being a reliable and understanding presence for you. While my services are posted in the Psychic Readings section due to the industry context, please understand that I do not provide therapy or traditional psychic readings. Instead, I offer a soothing and affirming conversation aimed at helping you with your concerns. Feel free to reach out, and I'll be here to listen and assist. You might be wondering what sets me apart from other listening services out there. Well, it's not just my passion for helping others; it's also my commitment to providing a deeply personal and authentic experience. I’m not a therapist or counselor, but I’m a friendly, caring individual who genuinely wants to make a positive impact in your life. Tailored Listening for You I understand that every individual is unique, and so are their needs. That's why my listening service is tailored to your preferences. Whether you're looking for a one-time heart-to-heart or ongoing support, I’m here to accommodate your needs and create a listening experience that's just right for you. Your Dedicated Empath Angelique listening to you is the heart and soul of my service. I possess exceptional listening skills, empathy, and commitment to making a difference in the lives of my customers. My purpose: to provide a helping hand and a friendly ear to those who need it. Join Me on This Journey I invite you to take a step towards a brighter and more connected future. Whether you need someone to talk to, vent your feelings, or share your dreams, I’m here for you. Angelique is a friendly listener and just a message away, ready to engage in meaningful conversations that can make a difference in your life. You can share with me things you cannot say to your family, friends, or support group. Feel free to say whatever you want to say, however you want to say it during our time together. I will listen with undivided attention, care, and love while you talk. All conversations are confidential. I respect your privacy. We will work out a time that works out for both of us. You will also instantly download an eBook about my life with the problems that I faced in the past and how I solved those problems. This eBook will help you to continue your healing journey. You are not alone. Angelique is here to help you express yourself. This is a 30 Minute phone session. If you need an extra hour, you must purchase the one hour phone session to get another hour of talking time. The eBooks are a series of eBooks with life lessons inside and no two eBooks are the same. The eBooks are not PLR and are written from my life. “There is nothing more rewarding than taking care of yourself.” Denise Austin Professional Listening Service Etsy, Listen with Compassion 30 Minutes Listening Talk Time, eBook 1 Stress Relief Listener You Are Not Alone
About Say What You Mean Find your voice, speak your truth, listen deeply—a guide to having more meaningful and mindful conversations through nonviolent communication We spend so much of our lives talking to each other, but how much are we simply running on automatic—relying on old habits and hoping for the best? Are we able to truly hear others and speak our mind in a clear and kind way, without needing to get defensive or go on the attack? In this groundbreaking synthesis of mindfulness, somatics, and Nonviolent Communication, Oren Jay Sofer offers simple yet powerful practices to develop healthy, effective, and satisfying ways of communicating. The techniques in Say What You Mean will help you to: • Feel confident during conversation • Stay focused on what really matters in an interaction • Listen for the authentic concerns behind what others say • Reduce anxiety before and during difficult conversations • Find nourishment in day-to-day interactions “Unconscious patterns of communication create separation not only in our personal lives, they also perpetuate patterns of misunderstanding and violence that pervade our world. With clarity and great insight, Oren Jay Sofer offers teachings and practices that train us to speak and listen with presence, courage, and an open heart.” —Tara Brach, author of Radical Acceptance and True Refuge
All I can tell you is there is a moment where you finally stop & refuse to pretend this life is not yours & suddenly being strong looks a lot like laughing & crying & dancing & listening deeply to the people you love. & now & then you'll look back at that old way & wonder how you ever believed that life was something to endure. art & story were originally created by Kai Skye in 2016
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I was reminded that holding space, inclusive of fully listening and creating an environment of love and loyalty, is the best gift of support anyone can ever give.
This week, I spent a lot of time reading (and listening to — I’m currently trying a new mode in which I listen to a few chapters via audiobook and then pick it up on paper to continue reading) Anne Lamott’s Bird by Bird. She is wonderfully funny and passionate in winning ways. I find her words — ostensibly pointed at the subject of writing, but with lessons that arc over into other realms — deeply encouraging both as a writer and a human. Worth a read whether or not you are trying to give writing a go. (And P.S., if you are trying to write, I did share some thoughts on how to get started here, with some practical tips, to which I would add/underscore that having good, designated paper to receive your thoughts is a great starting point. I open my little Appointed notebook and immediately find myself in a different, more curious headspace. It is low-stakes and inviting. I am also absolutely loving this task notebook from the brand, which I use more for lists, including quick writing prompt inspo to return to on a later day.) [TAG1] The vignettes above represents a personal Mount Helicon. I was alone on our back porch on a warm, sunny spring afternoon haloed by birds and bees, enjoying an iced coffee and a thought provoking book, and taking sporadic notes by hand. I used to be a big marginalia girl, but I’ve forfeited that habit because I also often lend my books to people and am then gripped with worry over what I annotated, since a lot of it is half-baked gibberish. Of course, that underdevelopment is very much part of the reading process, and I find jotting my way through provisionally formed observations useful. But I do not need my brother’s friend wondering why I was drawing a butterfly here or spitballing: “Kant?” there. Most of them prove to be red herrings. At the same time, I love inheriting books that are underlined, asterisked, and notated to high hell: a second discursive layer to the text itself. Did you know that the central narrative in Nabokov’s novel Ada, or Ardor, takes place in the fictional marginalia? He was challenging narrative conventions, and making enormous, stampeding claims about the relationship between text, author, and audience, but the rhetorical emphasis stuck with me. More often than not, those notes in the margins are windows into the inner lives of a reader. I suppose I feel a tad exposed leaving mine out there. How do you read? Pen in hand? In complete silence? Via audiobook? Some sporadic thoughts on these matters: +How to read. +A different way to read the Iliad. +My favorite audiobooks. (Please, please, listen to Tom Hanks narrate The Dutch House! You are in for such a wild treat.) That beautiful session on the patio was a strong peak of the week, but a few other things that caught my attention: +I wrote an essay on motherhood and the myth of balance for childrenswear brand Danrie’s burgeoning blog. I shared a bit about this new children’s boutique earlier this month, but I am completely enamored with the curation and the team. I was ecstatic to lend my pen to them, and it gave me the space I needed to round out some of my meandering thoughts and insights on the subject of balance that sprouted here. +Related, my daughter has been living in this sweet reversible jacket Danrie sent over. She has gotten into a pickier phase when it comes to dressing (one of the only things we regularly agree on are these TBBC play dresses) but she loves this little coat. A perfect weight for the season and the pattern seems to go with everything. Despite the thumbs down below, she was having the time of her life hunting for Easter eggs and eating cupcakes with her cousins on Easter. [TAG2] +My daughter was on spring break last ten days and we kept her very busy with trips to the museum, zoo, White House, and two days of ballet camp. On Wednesday, though, I took the morning off to ferry her to her annual physical, then to pick out soccer cleats, and then to lunch with my parents. It was so incredibly special to have that one-on-one time with her, to see her dancing to Taylor Swift in the back seat, and linger over pairs of Adidas sport slides (!) in the shoe store, and skip all the way up and down the mall corridor. Six is such a fabulous age. She is still tender-hearted and sweet and in dramatic need of my ministrations, but she is conversational and funny and observant. I just love her company. When we returned home from these errands, my husband had placed the entire box set of Jack and Annie books on the counter (her favorite – she’s obsessed!) with a note that said: “We love you, Emory. Never stop reading!” She was beaming, and then she immediately got to work selecting a book to dig into. The next morning, she’d left a note under our door that said: “Thank you so much for my Jack and Annie books. I think I’m already on chapter 8 or 9. I love you.” +Talbots invited me to style some of their new collection, and I’m wearing their easy pants (run a tad generous) in the head photo of this post. I plan on wearing them all summer long in clear homage to Nancy Meyers. +Easter was lovely but a tiny bit odd this year because my husband was battling a virus and felt unwell for most of the weekend, but did rally in time for our small Easter dinner — just the four of us — for which he prepared a rack of lamb. In the past, we’ve always gone big on Easter, inviting friends and family over, baking elaborate desserts, etc. Of course, despite his invalid status, he still managed to pull off a culinary feast, but it was a much quieter and less fussy affair than usual. I honestly did not even plan our Easter tablescape until 3 p.m. because he’d been feeling so badly, I didn’t know it would happen. (I’d even had to fill the easter baskets and scatter the easter eggs alone the night prior!) I ended up using this beautiful bird of paradise tablecloth that my friend over at Sweetgrass Home sent my way. I paired with simple woven chargers and moss bunnies and poured myself a tall glass of champagne. I always get questions about the coupes — one of my most prized possessions! They were sold out for awhile but you can now find them here. [TAG3] +I can’t get enough of my son’s little look over Easter weekend. Below, he’s running to board an Easter train way out in Maryland. Something about those tiny loafers just kill me. He’s wearing with Gap jeans, which are my favorite fit for him — slim but not skinny — and his beloved “teddy bear jacket” (a Patagonia Retro-X Fleece). Those Patagonia coats are worth every penny. They wear so well and barely show any signs of use. I have kept or passed down every one I’ve purchased, and I usually make them stretch to at least two seasons by sizing up. Now onto some lighter fare: the items that I cannot wait to style and share with you… THIS BANJANAN DRESS THESE LILAC SANDALS (20% OFF WITH CODE MAGPIE) CANDLES FROM LINNEA (THANKS TO A READER FOR THE TIP) CURTIS SITTENFELD’S NEW BOOK! THIS GORGEOUS JULIET DUNN DRESS MY NEW IPHONE CASE ON CLOUDSWIFT SNEAKERS THIS GORGEOUS NECKLACE Onward, friends. Hope you have a great week! The post The Magpie Edit: Edition 34. appeared first on Magpie by Jen Shoop.
Hey there! Welcome to my little corner of Etsy, where the art of listening takes center stage. I’m thrilled to introduce you to my professional listening service, a unique and deeply personal experience that can make a world of difference in your life. In a world that often feels loud and disconnected, I’m here to provide a safe space, an empathetic ear, and a friendly shoulder for you to lean on. As a fellow human, I've been through my fair share of ups and downs. I understand the value of a kind word, a listening ear, and the profound impact it can have on your overall well-being. That's why I’m passionate about offering my listening services right here on Etsy, a platform that celebrates craftsmanship and the power of human connection. Whether you need a sounding board, a confidante, or just someone to chat with, our attentive and compassionate listener Angelique is here to help you navigate life's twists and turns. The Art of Listening At the core of my professional listening service is the belief in the transformative power of listening. It's not just about hearing words; it's about understanding, empathizing, and being fully present in the moment. I've found that a genuine, active listener can help you process your thoughts and emotions, gain clarity, and feel validated in ways you might not have experienced before. A Helping Hand in Tough Times Life can be tough, and we all encounter moments when we feel lost, overwhelmed, or alone. At times like these, the simple act of sharing your thoughts with someone who genuinely cares can be incredibly uplifting. I have been through my fair share of life's challenges, and I’m here to offer support, compassion, and a friendly presence when you need it the most. The Healing Power of Conversation One of my favorite stories is about a customer named Alex, who reached out to us during a particularly difficult time in his life. Through our conversations, he found the strength to navigate his way out of his emotional turmoil and onto a path of healing. It's moments like these that remind us of the incredible healing power of genuine, heartfelt conversations. A Safe and Judgment-Free Space I've created a safe and judgment-free space for you to express yourself openly and honestly. Whether you want to discuss personal challenges, share your dreams and aspirations, or just engage in lighthearted chatter, I’m here to lend a non-judgmental ear. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard, understood, and accepted for who they are. Why Choose My Listening Service? Greetings! I'm a compassionate Christian woman who is here to lend a caring ear and offer support. My approach involves the power of prayer, artificial intelligence, and online resources to assist my clients in the best way possible. It's important to clarify that I do not engage in witchcraft or divination. I'm dedicated to being a reliable and understanding presence for you. While my services are posted in the Psychic Readings section due to the industry context, please understand that I do not provide therapy or traditional psychic readings. Instead, I offer a soothing and affirming conversation aimed at helping you with your concerns. Feel free to reach out, and I'll be here to listen and assist. You might be wondering what sets me apart from other listening services out there. Well, it's not just my passion for helping others; it's also my commitment to providing a deeply personal and authentic experience. I’m not a therapist or counselor, but I’m a friendly, caring individual who genuinely wants to make a positive impact in your life. Tailored Listening for You I understand that every individual is unique, and so are their needs. That's why my listening service is tailored to your preferences. Whether you're looking for a one-time heart-to-heart or ongoing support, I’m here to accommodate your needs and create a listening experience that's just right for you. Your Dedicated Empath Angelique listening to you is the heart and soul of my service. I possess exceptional listening skills, empathy, and commitment to making a difference in the lives of my customers. My purpose: to provide a helping hand and a friendly ear to those who need it. Join Me on This Journey I invite you to take a step towards a brighter and more connected future. Whether you need someone to talk to, vent your feelings, or share your dreams, I’m here for you. Angelique is a friendly listener and just a message away, ready to engage in meaningful conversations that can make a difference in your life. You can share with me things you cannot say to your family, friends, or support group. Feel free to say whatever you want to say, however you want to say it during our time together. I will listen with undivided attention, care, and love while you talk. All conversations are confidential. I respect your privacy. We will work out a time that works out for both of us. You will also instantly download an eBook about my life with the problems that I faced in the past and how I solved those problems. This eBook will help you to continue your healing journey. You are not alone. Angelique is here to help you express yourself. This is a 15 Minute phone session. If you need an extra hour, you must purchase the one hour phone session to get another hour of talking time. The eBooks are a series of eBooks with life lessons inside and no two eBooks are the same. The eBooks are not PLR and are written from my life. “There is nothing more rewarding than taking care of yourself.” Denise Austin Professional Listening Service Etsy, Listen with Compassion 15 Minutes Listening Talk Time, eBook 1 Empathetic Listener Mom Mum She Him Men
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Hey there! Welcome to my little corner of Etsy, where the art of listening takes center stage. I’m thrilled to introduce you to professional listening service, a unique and deeply personal experience that can make a world of difference in your life. In a world that often feels loud and disconnected, I’m here to provide a safe space, an empathetic ear, and a friendly shoulder for you to lean on. As a fellow human, I've been through my fair share of ups and downs. I understand the value of a kind word, a listening ear, and the profound impact it can have on your overall well-being. That's why I’m passionate about offering my listening services right here on Etsy, a platform that celebrates craftsmanship and the power of human connection. Whether you need a sounding board, a confidante, or just someone to chat with, our attentive and compassionate listener Angelique is here to help you navigate life's twists and turns. The Art of Listening At the core of my professional listening service is the belief in the transformative power of listening. It's not just about hearing words; it's about understanding, empathizing, and being fully present in the moment. I've found that a genuine, active listener can help you process your thoughts and emotions, gain clarity, and feel validated in ways you might not have experienced before. A Helping Hand in Tough Times Life can be tough, and we all encounter moments when we feel lost, overwhelmed, or alone. At times like these, the simple act of sharing your thoughts with someone who genuinely cares can be incredibly uplifting. Angelique the listener has been through her fair share of life's challenges, and she’s here to offer support, compassion, and a friendly presence when you need it the most. The Healing Power of Conversation One of my favorite stories is about a customer named Alex, who reached out to me during a particularly difficult time in his life. Through our conversations, he found the strength to navigate his way out of his emotional turmoil and onto a path of healing. It's moments like these that remind us of the incredible healing power of genuine, heartfelt conversations. A Safe and Judgment-Free Space I’ve created a safe and judgment-free space for you to express yourself openly and honestly. Whether you want to discuss personal challenges, share your dreams and aspirations, or just engage in lighthearted chatter, I’m here to lend a non-judgmental ear. I believe that everyone deserves to be heard, understood, and accepted for who they are. Why Choose My Listening Service? You might be wondering what sets me apart from other listening services out there. Well, it's not just my passion for helping others; it's also my commitment to providing a deeply personal and authentic experience. I’m not a therapist or counselor, but I’m a friendly, caring individual who genuinely want to make a positive impact in your life. Tailored Listening for You I understand that every individual is unique, and so are their needs. That's why this listening service is tailored to your preferences. Whether you're looking for a one-time heart-to-heart or ongoing support, I’m here to accommodate your needs and create a listening experience that's just right for you. Dedicated Angelique Angelique is the heart and soul of our service. I have exceptional listening skills, empathy, and commitment to making a difference in the lives of my customers. I’m driven by a common purpose: to provide a helping hand and a friendly ear to those who need it. Your Personal Stories, Our Inspiration Over time, I’ve had the privilege of hearing countless personal stories from individuals like you. These stories have touched my heart and inspired me to keep doing what we do. Your experiences and your journey are what motivate us to continue offering our listening service on Etsy. Join Us on This Journey I invite you to take a step towards a brighter and more connected future. Whether you need someone to talk to, vent your feelings, or share your dreams, I’m here for you. A friendly listener is just a message away, ready to engage in meaningful conversations that can make a difference in your life. Connect with our compassionate listener on Etsy, your trusted source for heartfelt conversations and a judgment-free zone. Transform your life, one conversation at a time. “There is nothing more rewarding than taking care of yourself.” Denise Austin Professional Listening Service Etsy, Listen with Compassion 10 Minutes Listening Talk Time, eBook 1 Empathetic Listener Mom Mum She Him Men
