Caring Mentally for the Elderly. Respect the elderly person. Help your loved one to cope with the loss of independence. Encourage them to volunteer. Visit frequently. Bring some of their personal belongings with them. Elders desire a life with good health, dignity, economic independence and finally a peaceful death. They long for care, love, and affection. Understanding their needs and concerns will ensure their good health. Lending emotional support to the elders keep them jovial, which is ine