After spending time learning about narcissism and identifying narcissistic traits in people (especially in your ex or current partner) you might all of a sudden stop and go … Wait a minute, am I the narcissist?! This can be a shocking and horrifying, especially if you start to believe what your mind is telling you, listening to the stories of when you have lacked integrity, been controlling, or even been manipulative. I can’t tell you how many times people have asked this question. Is it me? Am I the one who is really the narcissist? I want to state that