The Power of Letting Go It is one of the hardest things in world to do, certainly for me “IT IS”. Probably because our powerful need is to feel safe, loved, and successful. For most of my life I prided myself on my self-reliant and refusal to give up on any goal or duties I was doing in my life. Letting go felt like failure or turning down and both were nearly unendurable to me. Perhaps now I have realized “Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about something anymore or you are giving up. It's just realizing you are moving on and there’s a difference between giving up and letting go.” What makes it hardest to let go of anything we want , we have pre assumption in our mind that we are going to suffer with an enduring loss. We like to hold on things, situation and circumstances because in some weird way it’s fulfilling. But, there is no sense in holding onto past , it only holds you back. Many a times we use our past to justify our current situation and decision making , and this is why we do not want to let go. So when you are unable to let go , that’s become a part of your life and works against you and will hold you back from your present happiness. Just because you are unable to let go of things, you shouldn’t let that influence your current life. Rather use that as a tool to push you further, not as an excuse. Letting go is not as hard as it may seem. To let go you should accept you can’t change things and then move on . once you are able to move on and shut old doors , certainly new doors will open up ,better opportunities will arise, and, to the greatest extent you will have a better story , a better life that moves you forward , instead of holding you back. With all that in my mind I have come up with an answer it’s time to let go. I TOOK A DEEP BREATH AND LET IT GOOOO…………………JJJJ