I have never written an article specifically on this topic – and I think it is really important that I do. Feeling “addicted” to the narcissist is one of the most horrible and powerless things about suffering the trauma of narcissistic abuse. And it truly does defy all logical explanation. People standing on the side-lines can’t comprehend it. It would seem obvious that you would want nothing to do with someone who continually hurts you. It seems incredulous that you’re not able to logically define that this person is no longer worth one scrap of your energy, and that