Until now, couples facing the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in an unhappy marriage had three options: individual or couples therapy, separation, or divorce. Should I Stay or Go? provides these couples with a fourth option--the Controlled Separation (CS). Should I Stay or Go? explains CS and shows how it can be used as a tool to help couples make the best decision for both partners. Product DetailsISBN-13: 9780809225132 Media Type: Paperback Publisher: McGraw Hill LLC Publication Date: 09-01-1999 Pages: 304 Product Dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.80(h) x 0.70(d)About the Author Lee Raffel, M.S.W., is founder and clinical director of Awareness Counseling Services, Inc. She has counseled couples for more than 25 years using the CS method.What People are Saying What People are Saying About This Constance Ahrons If you are stuck in the agonizing dilemma of "should I stay or should I leave?" my marriage, here is a book that provides a clear road map to help you make that decision. Using an innovative approach called Controlled Separation, couples are provided with both the knowledge and tools to make one of life's most difficult decisions. — (Constance Ahrons, Ph.D., author, The Good Divorce, Director, MFT Program, University of Southern California)