If you and your husband decide to a trial separation, just be prepared for comments from others. They will assume. They will worry. Most of all, they will not know the right things to say. They will think of only two no-no words: marriage problems. Not that it’s any of their business. You’re simply telling them so they won’t have to hear it from someone else, or figure it out, or for there to be an awkward situation later. If you do have a separation, just make sure to coach the people you tell; you can tell them it’s temporary,