“Access to me is a privilege, not a right.” That sentence makes a lot of people uncomfortable. Why? Because we’ve been conditioned to believe that saying “no” is rude, boundaries are selfish, and unlimited access is proof of love. I disagree. Not everyone deserves your time. Not everyone deserves your energy. And not everyone deserves front-row seats to your life. The controversial truth? The people most offended by your boundaries are often the ones who benefited from you having none....