“No wrong answer…did you?” Why does this work?? 👉 Sometimes defensiveness is a result of feeling like you’re always getting it wrong, so when your partner asks you a question you just assume it’s because you’ve messed up in some way. If your partner is assuming that you’re attacking them or accusing them, try adding “no wrong answer” before your question. This allows them to answer without feeling like they’re on the chopping block. Of course, this only works if there is actually no wrong answe