Something I have been called out for, on more than one occasion, is how much I curse.Excuse me. How much I fucking curse.People get upset I am cursing because it doesn’t sit right with them. They challenge me to find a better, more eloquent way of expressing myself. What I have never understood in these moments is why I should self-edit to make others more comfortable.In part, that is expected because I am a woman. Self-editing to keep others comfortable is supposed to be second-nature to me, an