We've all come across those 'high vibe' sparkly-toothed people before. Perhaps we've gone through financial troubles, are suffering a bad relationship, have a sick loved one, or are feeling depressed. We'll then reach out for support to one of these love-and-light people and are met with a wall of positive statements like: 'Just focus on the positive!' 'Don't be so negative!' 'Think happy thoughts!' 'You'll get over it!' 'Stay positive!' 'All is love!' 'There's always a silver lining!' But these sayings, while supposedly wise and spiritual, don't actually help us. Instead, they fill us with rage and nausea – we